Grown Early, Loved Loud: My Life in R&B’s Golden Era

Love in the Time of Timberlands: A 90s & 00s R&B Throwback

By Rehab's Couch

There was a time when love songs had a bassline you could bounce to. When heartbreak came with harmonies, and healing sounded like Joe telling you he was ready, or Brandy letting you know that she wanna be down. That’s the era this mix pays homage to — the late 90s and early 2000s — a golden stretch for R&B, and a formative period in my own life.

I was young, but already deep in the thick of grown-woman life — babies on my hip, a full-time job, bills, dreams, and expectations pulling me in every direction. But through it all, the music was always there. In my headphones on a late bus ride home. On the stereo as I cooked dinner half-dancing. In stolen moments of softness that reminded me I was still allowed to feel.

This mix is for that version of me. The one juggling big responsibilities but still holding on to rhythm and romance. It’s Usher reminding me to let it burn. It’s Monica telling me to just one of them days. It’s Tyrese with that honey-glazed voice, making ordinary moments feel cinematic. It’s Ludacris bringing swagger to the mix, because love back then came with a little edge. And of course, Aaliyah — always a vibe, always ahead of her time.

The music of that era was more than just love songs. It was a lifeline. Artists like Jagged Edge, Donell Jones, Ashanti, and Ne-Yo gave us soundtracks for our joy, our tears, and everything in between. These weren’t just slow jams — they were survival songs, wrapped in velvet vocals and hip-hop kicks. The perfect blend of sensual and streetwise, churchy and club-ready.

Press play and let this mix take you there — back to the smell of pink lotion and incense, denim on denim, Nokia ringtones, and love letters folded into triangles. Back to a time when our hearts beat in sync with the radio, and our stories were written in song.

From one survivor of that era to another — this is for you. This is for us.  Link :press here

 

Beg Borrow and steel!

What a couple of days i've had..Losing all my musical ingredients.. So i've begged borrowed and shhh...stole..some music to ease the pain..what an addict to music i am..
Its very strange as i was compiling this new cd.. i say wheres this..and wheres that..its a bit like making dinner in someone elses kitchen..lol.. Different pots and pans ..different seasoning...ooh i dont know what the stove is like..However, a true chef should be able to cook a meal anywhere... this one is dedicated to my knight in shining armour who totally came through for me in my hour of need...you certainly know who your friends are when it counts...i love you baby.....xxx why not take a bite and let me know how the food tastes.. lol..much love...

Artists include:
Kray Twins ft Vee
Joe
Eric Sanicola ft Brooke Ross
Kanye West & Malik Yusef ft common
Kesha ft Three mafia
Mishon
South Souldiers
Leona Lewis ft Cassidy
Reazon
Rock city
Ludacris



DOWNLOAD LINK: (Upfront mix Urban UK Flavours with a hint of Dirty South)
http://www.4shared.com/file/105065336/e930d6c9/beg_borrow_and_steelmix.html